Using A Vibrator During Pregnancy- Is It Safe?

Benefits of Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy

Having sex is an important aspect of every healthy relationship. As a pregnant woman, your body goes through a lot of physical and emotional changes, and having sex can keep you connected with your partner. It helps to improve your mood and relax you.

Just like it is safe to have sex during healthy pregnancy and it limits your risks of preterm labor, you derive the same benefits from the vibrator except for the connection with your partner. But then, when your belly is the shape of a football, using a vibrator during pregnancy remains the most comfortable way of deriving pleasure.

Precautions to Take Before You Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy

There are few things you need to keep in mind before using a vibrator while you are pregnant.

1. You would have noticed that a vibrator is much harder and more rigid than an average penis.
2.  You need to be careful and gentle while using the vibrator and not do any deep penetration.
3. It is advisable to use external vibrators as the internal vibrators are made up of plastic which may put you in a risk of deeper penetration which can irritate your cervical lining.
4. The internal vibrator can also be dangerous for your uterus and can affect your pregnancy.
5. It is very important to make sure the vibrator you are using is clean and infection-free.
6. Sterilize the vibrator after every use and store it in a clean and dry place.
7. Try covering the vibrator with a condom before inserting it into your vagina to limit the risk of vaginal infections or any sexually transmitted diseases.

Read: [STDs During Pregnancy Common Infection, Treatments, And Prevention]

When Should I Avoid Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy?

There are a few scenarios during which using a vibrator should be completely avoided during pregnancy:

1. If you have any conditions that have resulted in a higher chance of preterm labor, then it is best to avoid using a vibrator. This is because the use of a vibrator can lead to an orgasm, which can kick start labor.
2. If you have placenta previa, you should avoid using a vibrator. This is because you are at a higher risk of bleeding or spotting and any movement can trigger it.
3. If you have an incompetent cervix, then it is advised to avoid the vibrator during pregnancy.  Using a vibrator, in such a case, can lead to pregnancy loss.
4. If you have a short cervix, that is a cervix that is shorter than normal, then it is not safe to use a vibrator. An orgasm in such situations can trigger cervix dilation.
5. At any time during your pregnancy, if you have had any unexplained vaginal bleeding, spotting, or any other abnormal discharge, then it is best to avoid using a vibrator.
6. If your water has broken already, then it is best not to use a vibrator.

So unless you fall into any of the cases mentioned in this article, and if you are careful while using a vibrator, you can go ahead and have some fun!

Warning Signs to Watch for While Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy

Here are some warning signs that you must be on the lookout for while using a vibrator during pregnancy:

• If you feel any kind of discomfort, irritation, or pain while using a vibrator during pregnancy, immediately stop using it.
• If there is spotting/bleeding or have abdominal pain after using the vibrator, speak to your doctor immediately.
• As you progress to the third trimester, using a vibrator can trigger painful contractions. If the pain persists even after a couple of hours, talk to your doctor immediately.

Read: [Spotting and Bleeding During Pregnancy]

Talking to Your Doctor

If you are concerned, uncertain, or have questions, please talk to your doctor. Remember that there is no need to be shy or have inhibitions while talking to your doctor. It is better to talk and clarify than to abstain from sex or take unnecessary risks. If your doctor advises you against having sex, make sure you ask clarifying questions.

For instance, by sex does the doctor mean penetration sex? Is it ok to use vibrators? Is it ok to engage in oral sex? Why exactly should sex be avoided?

Depending on your specific condition, your doctor will be able to advise do’s and don’ts. It is best to follow the doctor’s recommendation here. But the most important thing here is to make sure that you get the right information by asking the right questions without hesitations.

Therefore, If you take some precautionary measures, there is no wrong with using a vibrator during pregnancy. However, if you feel something is not right, stop using it and talk to your doctor about it.

Have a Healthy Pregnancy!

FAQ’s

1. Can Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy Harm my Baby?

No, it cannot. The baby is in the womb behind multiple layers. It is safe to use a vibrator just as sex during pregnancy.

2. Can Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy Cause Pre-Term Labor?

It depends on how far you are in your pregnancy. If you are nearing the end of your term, a strong orgasm using a vibrator can cause contractions. Inserting the vibrator too deep inside might also cause contractions.

3. Can I Get Infected by Using a Vibrator in my Pregnancy?

No, you cannot. As long as you are not sharing the vibrator and are sterilizing it well after every use, you are safe. You might experience itching if the vibrator has irritated your skin due to all the friction.

4. Can Using a Vibrator During Pregnancy Cause Bleeding?

If your vibrator is too big or too hard, it can cause bleeding. If you insert it too deep, it can cause bleeding. Anytime you see blood, get in touch with your doctor immediately.

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