Top Tips For Baby Night Weaning

1. Maximizing Baby’s Day Feeds

First and foremost, eliminate all distractions when it is baby’s feed time. Prefer a closed room, dimly lit, and with minimal noise so that the baby can concentrate on making herself full. Many babies go hungry during the day owing to distractions and thus wake up for multiple feedings during the night.

2. Extra Feedings In Evenings

Close to bedtime, offer your baby extra feedings and s/he will not wake up feeling hungry during the night. Even if s/he’s asleep, offer a final or dream feed before you yourself go to sleep.

3. Dad’s Role

Get your spouse to do the comforting to the baby when s/he wakes up at night. S/he will feel warm and comfortable, and would not expect him to feed her.

4. Eliminate Feedings Slowly

Go slow on cutting down on your baby’s feed, one at a time. Pat your baby and comfort her so that s/he can have her feed in the morning. Though s/he does not understand this now, soon s/he will.

5. Find the Baby Time

If you are not spending enough time with the baby during the day, your baby will make up for lost time at night. Make sure you spend some quality time with her every day.

6. Say NO

Be firm. Sometimes, babies tend to wake up during the night out of habit as well. Firmly say no to her, and pat her back to sleep.

7. Do Not Miss The Sleep Window

Do watch for cues when your baby is tired and needs to sleep. Missing the sleep window can make her unsettled all through the night.

8. Increase Distance

You could make your baby sleep in the crib, or if you prefer co-sleeping, make the access to your breast hard for her by wearing such clothes.

9. Remember You Are the Mother

Understand your baby’s signs – when s/he is hungry and when just wants a cuddle and a pat. Trust your intuition.

If your baby cries inconsolably, do give in the feed and resume night weaning, training again after a few weeks. Do not force this on her.

When Not To Begin Night Weaning?

We’d say that when your baby is around 4-6 months of age, you could root for a good night’s sleep for yourself and the baby.

However, in case the baby is going through any other changes, it is not wise to begin night weaning:

• If the baby is teething.
• If s/he has recently started solid foods.
• S/he has any allergies or is unwell.
• If you are going through a change of house or room.

Different people have different views on night weaning. If your goal is to ensure sleep for everyone, we’d say find your own way to it. Different babies have different needs, and parents generally figure out something that works best for everyone. Remember, that this is also a temporary phase, and your baby will grow out of it.