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We all know that babies can hear you from the womb. And we have all spent some time every day looking down and talking to the tummy, feeling a bit sheepish but enjoying the chat nevertheless. And then you deliver and out comes the baby who is eager to communicate with all and sundry in the only language he knows – crying!
Motherhood is difficult. You are in pain, you are sleep-deprived, you have crazy feeding schedules and you are just tired all the time. It is easy to ‘forget’ talking to the baby the way you did during the much ‘peaceful’ pregnancy period. In fact, many of us get so consumed by the new life that we forget the little chat. Don’t. This article gives you a few tips to help you communicate better with your child.
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Talking to your baby goes a long way in his early language and speech development. And earlier the child understands language, the better he will be at all forms of communication later in life. Ok, so they probably wouldn’t understand you in the beginning. But if you keep repeating the same things over and over again, they will eventually understand.
In fact, that is how all babies grasp language. The second reason is to develop a bond with your child. Or rather, strengthen the bond you built with him while he was inside you. He has heard you the most during the pregnancy, he recognizes your voice the most. So let him hear more of it, plenty of it so that he feels secure and he knows his mum is around.
Babies begin to communicate from the moment they are born. The baby’s language, in fact, the universal baby language is ‘crying’. For everything and anything, babies resort to crying and letting you know what needs to be done. In fact, you can decode your babies’ cries and figure out whether the baby wants a nappy change, or is hungry.
A baby can cry because he is overstimulated and does not know what to do next. The baby world is amazing, and a baby gives out other subtle forms of communication as well. Read about how to decode the baby’s cries here
Now that we all agree that you absolutely must communicate with your child, let us find out a few tips to do so in the best way.
An obvious suggestion, but difficult to implement if you do not know what to say! Here are a few pointers:
Experts say that babies feel very comforted when they hear soothing female voices. When they are older you can start the “adult” talk. For now, stick to happy, soothing baby talks.
There are non-verbal ways of communicating too. Spoil them with your attention. It takes practice, but try to understand why the baby is crying and meet his needs. There is no better way to reassure him that you understand his communication (i.e. crying) better than to tend to his needs.
We sound better than Adele to our babies. So sing away. Pick your favorite lullabies, or stick to nursery rhymes. In the initial days, sing the same 2-3 songs every day so that your baby gets familiarized with them. Did you sing to him while pregnant? Start with those songs!
Babies learn to move their hands faster than they learn to speak. They also love to mimic. So you can introduce a few signs in their lives. Waving for “bye-bye”, steering an imaginary wheel for “car”, or curling your fingers to ask “what” are few to start with. You could also have your own sign for “food” and “milk”. As they become bigger, these signs become very practical and handy.
Just like in adult conversation, an important part of your conversation with your baby is listening to his coos and gurgles. Let them babble. Look into their eyes and smile calmly as they do so. Then respond to the babble. Then stop again, so that the baby knows it’s his turn to talk again. This back-and-forth chatting will help your baby learn how to converse.
Imitate your baby’s goos and gaas and baahs. Imitate his facial expression too. This way you are letting him know that you understand him. Babies love to see faces and when accompanied by sounds that are high yet soothing, communication gets developed rapidly.
Another important non-verbal communication. Smile at your child a lot. It tells him you are happy and makes him smile back at you. Smiling at your baby when he coos help him understand the give-and-take of communication, and that you are giving him both attention and importance.
Start reading to your child, the earlier the better. Make it part of his everyday routine. For the initial three months, pick high-contrast colored picture books. Point out things in the book and use simple sentences to tell him about them. Slowly you can introduce “touch and feel”books and storybooks.
Perhaps the most important non-verbal way of communicating. Your touch can calm and reassure your baby instantly. The little wonder is still learning a lot about life, and your kisses and hugs are reassuring him that he is safe and loved a lot.
Happy parenting!
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