Written by Editorial Team
Children can be very difficult to deal with at times. After a hard day at work, dealing with a fussy and moody kid throwing tantrums and demanding things at their beck and call can be very exhausting and annoying for a parent. However, we forget that like us even kids have their best days and not so good days when they act moody and request to indulge in few things are their only way to deal with such days. This may not be the case always and sometimes it may be just their need to feel pampered and at times they make unreasonable requests for the sake of it.
Some days using the word “no” would make you seem like villains of the happiness in their life, leaving your kids in a grumpy mood. You denying them something would be for their own good, but the little hearts fail to understand your thoughts. Have you ever felt guilty of saying “no” to your kid’s requests? Have you wished to know of a better way to tackle the situation that saying an outright “no”? Well, read on to know your way out of these dicey situations.
Most of the time, uttering the word “no” happens to be a quick response to protect your child from doing something that would hurt him/her or teach them about the dangerous consequences that their actions may result in. An unexplained “no” would leave the child confused and frustrated. Excessive use of the word “no” may also be associated with something bad and make your kid more curious and make him act as a rebel and throw tantrums. A “no” without an explanation can make the kid want to know the reason and can be taken up as a challenge to know the consequence of it. Avoiding a direct “no” with an explanation or alternative options makes the child optimistic and look at the situation from different perspectives.
So remember, while saying no to your children is good for them to hone self-discipline, it is not always very effective. So it is very crucial that you use it sparingly. There are better techniques to deny, deter, or discipline your kid than always saying a big “no”. We hope that these 20 tips and tricks mentioned above will help your tot to listen to you without you using the N word.
How many times do you say no to your child in a day? How do you effectively discipline your child> SO share your experience in the comments section below.
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