Challenges Of Having Back-To-Back Babies

There are many reasons why people prefer to have back-to-back pregnancies. One of them may be the convenience of raising both children at the same time. They prefer the little inconvenience of back-to-back pregnancy rather than repeating the entire process later in life. In addition, having children near one another in age will make them excellent companions for one another. Moreover, from a financial perspective, mothers can reuse a lot of the items they have leftover from their previous pregnancies.

Back to Back Pregnancy Risks And Complications

Research by Mayo Clinic on pregnancy spacing underpins the importance of family planning and highlights the factors that new parents should consider before conceiving again.

The research suggests that beginning a pregnancy within six months of live birth is associated with an increased risk of premature birth, low birth weight, placental abruption- where the placenta dislodges itself (fully or partially) from the inner walls of the uterus before delivery, low birth weight, congenital disorders, schizophrenia. The research also hypothesizes that pregnancies within 12 months of a live birth could be associated with an increased risk of autism in the second child.

Some independent studies have postulated that breastfeeding mothers are more likely to conceive twins. However, these studies have not been corroborated.

Challenges Of Having Back To Back Babies

Pregnancy and delivery take a toll on the mental, physical, emotional, and psychological health of the mother. Time and proper care are essential to help the mother recover from the first pregnancy.

1. Breastfeeding

Medical experts and healthcare providers recommend only breastfeeding the baby for the first 6 months. Another pregnancy within six months of giving birth can affect milk production and the breastfeeding process. Hormonal changes after conception change the taste and consistency of the breast milk, and you may experience your breast milk supply to be tanking. Your breastfeeding baby might never feel full causing them to wean themselves.

2. Exhaustion

Juggling both, a new pregnancy and breastfeeding could deplete you or your reserves of iron and folate, leaving you exhausted. Indigestion, mood swings, weakness, and malaise could further expose you to the brink of postpartum depression.

3. No Time To Lose Pregnancy Weight

A second pregnancy closes on heel your first delivery, which might eliminate the prospect of postpartum exercise and losing the weight you had gained during your first one. For some women, this might affect their body image and hit their self-esteem pretty hard.

4. Less Time For Your Baby

You certainly do not want to miss out on the joys of motherhood, especially in the first year of your baby’s life. You want to capture every milestone, and a second pregnancy might not leave you with enough time at hand to do so. Your growing belly might make it difficult for you to carry your baby. Rolling in bed and crawling with your little one will be out of the question.

5. Doubling Up On Expensive Stuff

With one baby in tow and one in the belly, you really should think about doubling up on all the big-ticket items such as strollers and prams, cribs, warm clothes, and more living space! Your financial planning might take a beating, and you might have to restructure your priorities and finances.

6. Sex Life Will Take A Back Seat

Breastfeeding and pregnancy lead to certain changes in neurochemicals of the brain. This alters testosterone production and other pro-sexual neurochemicals such as dopamine and oxytocin. This mandates your sex life to take a backseat.

Joys Of Having Back To Back Babies

Long days, insane noise levels, messy homes, unbeatable stress, but I wouldn’t have it any other way – says every mother who has had back-to-back babies. Yes, despite, all the risks, complications, and challenges, having another baby soon after your first brings you that warm, fuzzy feeling when you think of-

1. Your Children Will Grow Up Together

This will cut the chaos of initial years such as changing diapers, potty training, teething, avoiding falls, and so on, in one fell swoop.

2. Your Children Will Learn A Lot From Each Other

They might have similar interests, they might become playmates, they might study together and in the future, might also share a friend circle. You will also be assured of your children, keeping a watch on each other and being each other’s confidantes.

3. A Double Dose Of  Love

With two babies close in age, you get double the number of kisses and warm cuddles. Add to this, the baby’s scent and soft skin rubbing against yours all day and night.

Having children close in age or having children several years apart is a parenting decision that every couple needs to make. Nobody can make that decision for you. Remember, nobody can ever make you feel ashamed or embarrassed for being pregnant. Think it through, take all the precautions, and enjoy every moment of each of your pregnancies.

FAQs

1. Is It Healthy To Have A Baby Back-To-Back?

No. It is best to wait at least 18 months after giving birth before becoming pregnant again. This is because the shorter the interval between pregnancy, the higher your risk of having a premature baby and other complications are.

2. What Is The Best Age Gap Between The First And Second Child?

According to World Health Organization guidelines, you should wait at least 24 months between having your first and second child. The mother has by this point fully recovered from her first pregnancy, as she has replenished the nutrients she lost during the first pregnancy.