Sometimes, the most important obstacle a woman faces to bring her child does not even stem in her. She has to explain and assure an apprehensive partner who is totally unrelenting when it comes to the possibility of becoming a dad. The underlying issues in the denial to be dad are so very complex that you need to approach them very patiently. After all, bringing home a baby to an uncooperative dad is a very tough experience, leaving alone the stress of going through pregnancy without your partner’s support. So, find below a breakdown of the 5 comprehensive reasons and the solutions towards convincing a difficult partner.
Then again, your husband’s fears can also stem from a miserly attitude where he thinks it unwise to go through the costs, even when there is sufficient money. Here, you have to take a tough stance and shake him into the realization that no expenditure can ever come even near to the happiness of holding your own baby
So, when you break your wish to be pregnant, he simply feels very low because deep in his heart he knows that you are going to take a massive responsibility that nature would never allow him to take. Communication is the only way to resolve this stalemate and you have to know the right things to say. You will have to talk first to access his heart, on what he is thinking exactly. Men are known to hide their heart under egoistic shouting and all that, so it can be tough. Try your best
He thinks he cannot care for you in case you have an urgent situation. Then, your husband may also projecting his thoughts to the stress of bringing up an infant. Little ones puke, pee, and poop at will! He finds all these difficult to handle. Now, there is no other way but to tell him that all these hassles are only secondary to the joy of being parents
In highly complicated negative situations, husbands are apprehensive because of reasons they do not want you to know. He may be having a raving affair, and your proposal to be a parent just seems out-of-the-world of his stolen ‘paradise’. Every woman knows what to do in such scenarios. It is nothing to be explained. That said, take care of yourself and your partner. Here is wishing you an amazing parenthood! Best of luck.