Making Love In The Second Trimester Of Pregnancy

The movement of your baby increases suddenly after you achieve an orgasm. Don’t misinterpret your baby’s movement as showing its discomfort. Neither is it a sign of your baby being unsafe. These movements are simply because of the outpouring of hormones in your pelvic region and also due to increased blood flow towards the pelvic area.

If the movement of your baby worries you, don’t keep the feeling inside you. Share your feeling with your partner. There are other alternatives like having sex from behind you (spooning) so that you may be less aware of your baby’s activities. Remember, ultimately it is your comfort that counts when you are carrying.

When Is Sex During Second Trimester Of Pregnancy Considered ‘Unsafe’?

After enjoying normal sex life in the first trimester there is no reason for you to cease your desire for having sex unless some new issues surfaced like:

1. If  Diagnosed With Cervical Weakness

Cervical weakness is a condition in which the cervix- the neck of the uterus and the entrance to the womb- begins to widen instead of being tightly shut. If this condition is somehow not recognized in your first trimester it will definitely show up during the beginning of the second trimester. Cervical weakness leads to miscarriage, especially during the second trimester.

2. Vaginal Bleeding After Sex

Occasional spotting or slight bleeding after intercourse is normal. This is because the number of capillaries in your cervix region increases during pregnancy and some of them ruptures during sex creating slight bleeding.

Still, if the bleeding after sex is heavy and is accompanied by cramps or if the bleeding is slight and lasts more than three days, we recommend you to stop having sex before discussing your problem with your doctor

3. Urinary Tract Infection:

If you are prone to urinary tract infection (UTI) it is better to avoid sex during your second trimester. Urinary tract infection may lead to premature labor as well as affect your kidney. Frequent sex during pregnancy is found to set off urinary tract infections

4. Vaginal discharge:

If you have a foul-smelling discharge after intercourse, we advise you against having sex. Foul-smelling discharge may be a sign of infection, which may pass all the way up to your uterus. Straight away consult your doctor for treatment when you notice a stinky vaginal discharge

Which Are The Best Positions For Sex During The Second Trimester Of Pregnancy?

Sex along with your growing belly might not be as comfortable as during your first trimester. But even in the second trimester, the belly is not as big and huge to cause a hindrance as it is in the third trimester. Did you know that the second trimester of pregnancy is known as the “honeymoon trimester”?

This is because sex will be amusing and entertaining during this period of pregnancy owing to the decline and fading way of nausea and highly sensitive feminine parts. Now the traditional missionary style won’t be comfortable and delightful because of your growing belly. Here we propose to you some sex positions to help you select the ones that suit you and your partner.

1. Spooning

During this sort, you and your partner should lie down side-by-side. Your partner should lie behind you. Now you can enjoy the sex as he gets into you from behind. This position cannot put pressure on your belly. The penetration will be shallow, providing more comfort.

2. You on Top

Considering yourself on the top during sex is a good idea to keep off the pressure from your belly. Leaning forward and holding the headrest of the bed or handle of the sofa depending upon where you are having sex, will provide extra support to your belly.

3. Doggy Style

This is the most favored position during the second trimester of pregnancy. During this style, you ought to kneel down on the couch in such a way that your belly is supported by the couch. Your partner can kneel down behind you and penetrate from the rear.

4. Scissor Position

Making love lying face to face develops new intimacy throughout the sex. The scissor position provides that comfort during intercourse. Penetration is going to be shallow, reducing the discomfort during intercourse.

Positions That Should Avoid During The Second Trimester

Lying flat on the back: During your second trimester, especially when you are around the twentieth week of pregnancy it is better to avoid the positions in which you have to rest on your back. This is because when you lie on your back, the growing uterus may squeeze the main blood vessels which slow the blood flow to the placenta. That is also why sleeping on the back is not recommended. Read more about it here.

Hope the information on Making Love In The Second Trimester Of Pregnancy is helpful. Most women feel immensely delightful having sex in their second trimester. Monitoring changes in your body meanwhile and enjoying your sex drive is important during your second trimester of pregnancy.

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(Please note that this article is for informational purposes only. Seek your doctor’s help if something is bothering you). You can also find out about making love during the third trimester of pregnancy here

FAQ’s

1. When Should We Stop Making Love During Pregnancy?

Sex is completely safe up to the day of birth if you are experiencing a normal, healthy pregnancy with no difficulties. However, it is recommended that pregnant women with bleeding disorders, placenta previa, and cervical incompatibility refrain from sexual activity.