Written by Editorial Team
“Here comes the baby, there goes the marriage,” says one Wall Street Journal article and with good reason. While outsiders might assume that having a child together should bring two people more close to each other, experience shows otherwise. Many at times, couples drift apart after a newborn. The reasons could be plenty, and here we will take you through them, and suggest some tried and tested tips to make sure that having a baby does not take a toll on your marriage.
After you have a baby, the baby takes away all of your time, energy and focus. New parents are often overwhelmed by the transition to parenthood, so much so that a research by Bringing Baby Home demonstrated that a whopping 67% of couples become dissatisfied and unhappy with their partners within 3 years of having a baby. The intensity of relationship conflicts rises the most during the first year of the baby. So can a marriage not survive a newborn? Is having a baby making couples drift apart? Why so?
For a more detailed discussion on this topic, refer to 8 Reasons You Have Differences With Your Husband After Having A Baby
As you might have observed, none of the above reasons are big enough to make a marriage fail. Some are even quite trivial. Despite that, each of these small problems slowly snowballs into “irreconcilable differences”. The good news is that if you are willing to do just one thing, then you can ensure your marriage survives. And that one thing is to commit to work on your marriage.
So how do you make the transition to parenthood smooth and something that strengthens your bond as a couple? Some tips that can help are:
The biggest step towards having a successful marriage is understanding that there will be roadblocks, there will be times when negative emotions get in the way of love and there will be times when you think you were better off before marriage. Understand that it is normal to feel all these. The key is in being prepared for it and being committed to work around the roadblocks and misunderstandings.
Good luck!
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