Written by Pradeep
There are broadly two ways you can deliver a baby – normal delivery and C-section. The very fact that you call a vaginal delivery “normal” makes the C-section feel a bit “abnormal” and “unnatural”. So the problem starts with the nomenclature, not just with mindsets.
As many C-section moms would know, the scars of the operation, although painful, lessens in comparison to the kind of ridicule one has to bear for not “opting for” the more “natural” and “healthy” delivery. What all of us need to understand is that a majority of the C-section deliveries happen so under doctor’s advice, when there is a medical reason not to attempt normal delivery.
Of course, there are some who chose it electively, meaning they opt for C-section because they do not want to go for normal delivery. And this is fine too. A pregnant woman’s comfort and preferences are extremely important, because, well, it is her body, her baby, so her choice.
All these are reasonable and logical. But for nay-sayers, logic and reason do not matter. They firmly believe that since they had a vaginal delivery, they are somehow more of a mom than you, who had a C-section delivery. Take any social forum, and you would see more people taking sides on this debate than voice a neutral “a mom is a mom, how does the mode of delivery matters” comment.
Here are the top 5 comments we hear about C-section.
All of them are ridiculous, to put it in a mild way. Let us pick each of these myths and bust them
So, dear C-section mom, you have not failed as a mother. You are not less of a mother. You carried a little miracle inside you for nine months. You went through a major operation. You have stitches and you have scars. And most importantly, you have a healthy baby in your arms. Do not get disheartened if someone says something hurtful. You are bigger than that. While this entire write up is defensive, we urge you – you do not have to defend your choice and explain why you had to go through a C-section as though that will make the nay-Sayers respect you more. It won’t. Let them believe what they want. You are and will be a rock star mom!
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Remya
Sep 01, 2016
Never..... bond between mother and baby,it is precious.... c section or normal delivery. ..doesn't matter.... I finished 3 cesarean. I love my kids deeper... but I know many mothers (after normal delivery) throwing their kids like some animals and harassing their kids in home... so think before writing articles
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Remya
Sep 01, 2016
Never..... bond between mother and baby,it is precious.... c section or normal delivery. ..doesn't matter.... I finished 3 cesarean. I love my kids deeper... but I know many mothers (after normal delivery) throwing their kids like some animals and harassing their kids in home... so think before writing articles
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